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The Candle Ritual to Attract Your Soulmate

How to attract your soulmate: a spiritual ritual that's been tried and tested

This candle ritual to attract your soulmate is not magic; we are not casting spells. 

What we are doing is working with the Law of Attraction to identify, picture and attract to us the person who is our Divine selection.

This exercise is called a ritual because there are certain steps to be undertaken and each is imperative to the outcome as detailed above.


  • a candle (preferably pink to symbolise romantic love)

  • writing paper and a pen 

Sit down comfortably where you will not be disturbed for half an hour or so. 

Try and have clear energy within yourself and within the space you are in.

If you feel mentally cluttered or burdened from the day, meditate or pray to clear your mind.

Let fresh air into the room or smudge your space with sage to cleanse it from any energy that is not useful to this exercise.



  1. Place a pink candle in front of you. The colour pink represents romantic love
  2. You may like to pray or meditate for Divine guidance towards your highest good 
  3. Light your candle
  4. Take a few deep breaths and set your intention to manifest your soulmate (your Divine selection – the person so right for you that they seem to be God-given)
  5. Write your letter to God (or The Universe, your Angels etc.) asking to grant you 'the desire of your heart, your ideal love partner”
  6. List the attributes you would like this person to have. Be specific and remember nothing is too good to be true!
  7. End the letter with "All this and even greater, I now accept, wholeheartedly and with love. Through God and with God, so may it be. And so it is.”
  8. Read your letter out aloud with conviction.
  9. Spend time feeling what it would be like to have your desire granted. Let your heart lead you, not your head.
  10. Snuff the candle out when you are satisfied.
  11. Say THANKYOU to the Universe for hearing you.
  12. Put your letter away for safe keeping and get on with your life.
  13. Be calm and remember the right love will come to you – at the perfect time and in the perfect way.
Note: It’s important to approach this exercise without desperation or anxiety. Be light in your approach. Have fun with the exercises but know that the Universal Law of Attraction is now working on your behalf.
As we are working with the Universal Law of Attraction, a desperate approach will attract someone who desires a desperate approach. This will also drag out the amount of time to meet your match, as no doubt there will be a litany of mismatches along the way.

Feedback / Questions from readers

I have received some lovely emails back from readers sharing their apparent success with the ritual.
The most commonly asked question though is: "I am getting lots of romantic attention right now. How do I know if the person is the right one?"
My answer is just to give it time and let things unfold naturally. And don't forget to enjoy the process and go into it with joy! 
If you've started the ritual and have any feedback or questions please feel free to leave a comment below.
Light and good vibes, Kate  


  • Hi Judith, you don’t need to worry about someone attaching to you with this ritual. What is being requested of the Universe is for your ideal love partner to manifest. If you are their ideal love partner they would need to be yours too. <3 All the best, Kate

    Basking In Light
  • What if someone attached there self to you with out you nowing them

  • Hi Catherine, don’t burn the letter. Keep it in a safe place because it is something you want. Typically from a ritual point of view you would burn a letter if you no longer want the energy you placed on the page. Love and light, Kate

    Basking In Light
  • Please ma , can I burn the letter after the ritual?

  • Hi Carlisa, if the candle blew out I would redo the ritual. Love and light, Kate

    Basking In Light

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